The Lilly Pond

July 7, 2001 - Issue 9

 

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Issue 9: In the Pond This Week
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1. Congratulations Melody!
2. “The Underwear Song” by Reader Pamy
3. What's Your Story?
4. “My Bread Dough Experience”
      by Reader Pam of Pennsylvania
5. News from TheLillyPond.com
6. “Thank God for Each Day with My Mama”
      by Reader Shannon of Mississippi
7. Share The Lilly Pond
8. How to Submit Your Story
9. Contact Me

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1. Congratulations Melody!
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No, this is not the name of a song. It’s about Melody of Louisiana! She was our 1,000th subscriber to this ezine! She wins a LillyPond tee-shirt! (As soon as we can get some ;-) Woo-hoo Melody and hip-hip-hooray!

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2. “The Underwear Song” by Pamy
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Dear Lillian,
I loved your “Clean Underwear” story in Heartwarmers. My brother-in-law and I wrote a silly song about that very subject and sang it at a family reunion, complete with our little band, because my mother-in-law had always admonished her kids the same way your mother did. Here it is.

“The Underwear Song”

Verse 1
Growing up I learned a thing or two
Always be careful what you say and do
Listen really close and you will see
This is what my Mama said to me

Chorus
Always wear clean underwear
Cause you might have a wreck between here and there
Just in case you need emergency care
Always wear clean underwear

Verse 2
The years have gone by and I'm old and gray
And still this question won't go away
As I drive along with caution and care
Do I have on clean underwear?

Chorus
Always wear clean underwear
Cause you might have a wreck between here and there
Just in case you need emergency care
Always wear clean underwear

By Myron D. Blaine and Pamela R. Blaine
June, 1997

http://members.aol.com/pamyblaine/PamyPlace.html

From Lillian:

What a neat song, Pamy! Many thanks for sharing it! Normally we only publish first names and states to preserve our reader’s privacy. Since you said you like to hear from folks, we’ll put your website address out there too. It really is a fun site. Thanks again!

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3. What's Your Story?
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If you have a lesson you learned from your mother, or an inspirational story of a situation you've worked through, or whatever comes to your mind, write it down in an email to stories@thelillypond.com

Just knowing that you cared enough to write your story will help encourage others to write theirs. And YOU DON'T KNOW whom your story will touch. So, write me your story, and see instructions for submissions at the end of this ezine.

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4. “My Bread Dough Experience”
   by Pam of Pennsylvania
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I grew up with much love in a family of four kids and both parents. My father was a farmer, plus he worked full time at a local factory as a pipe fitter. My mom was a stay-at-home mom. We had much to do with housework, pets, sports, plus helping my father keep the farm going since modern technology wasn't that advanced in the ‘60s. Mom always raised a garden. We planted, weeded and harvested it, plus helped her can the harvest. During the day, household chores kept us busy ‘til farm chores took over.

One day my three younger brothers and I were helping Mom make her weekly bread from scratch. I was told to get off my lazy streak and get some things my Mom needed. I got a bit mouthy, which wasn't allowed. Mom promptly told me to knock it off or I would be sorry. I didn't knock it off, but continued griping. Next thing I knew I was hit broadside in the face with the bread dough for the whole week, knocking me flat on the floor plus covering my entire body with flying flour!

Mom and my three brothers were laughing hysterically as I laid there totally helpless. I couldn't even get up by myself due to the weight of that bread dough until my mother picked her bread dough off me. Needless to say, I decided mouthing off to Mom wasn't for me. Still today we get a laugh from my bread dough experience.

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5. News from TheLillypond.Com
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Check out my website for updated articles and news. For
example . . .

ITEM: For the series “My Daughter Hates Me,” I’ll soon be posting the second installment titled “A Little Feedback Helps.” This series was inspired by the need to respond to a letter from a reader who’s having serious problems in her relationship with her daughter, and by my prayers that it can help others work through similar challenges.

ITEM: The third in my series of lessons about “Things God Cannot Do” will be posted on the website this weekend, so check back for that. This series has been a real encouragement to many.

ITEM: When Heartwarmers Ezine published my “Clean Underwear” story, we got a blizzard of comments. Apparently EVERYBODY’S mother said the same thing my mother said to me. Some of these comments are posted on the website and they’re so much fun. Especially the last one.

ITEM: As you can see on the website, whenever we post a new article, we put a link on the right side of the page so you can see what’s been added recently. If you’re a new subscriber, there’s plenty of articles that you can get to from the permanent buttons on the left border of the page. More stuff is going on the website all the time. So watch this space and the right-hand border of the website for current info.

And if you've missed any of the ezines, they are now posted on the website in the Archive. We’ve got an “Archive” link on the right border to make it easy to find the Archives.

So check back to www.thelillypond.com and stay connected.

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6. “Thank God for Each Day
   with My Mama”
   by Shannon of Mississippi
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I have always had a good relationship with my mother. We never fussed or fought like a lot of people I know. My granddaddy died when I was 6 years old; then for many years, there were no deaths of a really close relative in our family. Some great aunts and uncles passed away but we were not that close. So I really didn't know what it was like to lose someone close.

Then my best friend's father died. This really shook me up. It made me realize how much I had taken my mother for granted and that I never considered that she would die. So I decided to take every chance I had to tell her how much I love her and how special she is to me.

That was almost 20 years ago. I still have my little Mama. But earlier this year we found out that she has cancer. Now more than ever before, I see just how special and important each day I have with my mother really is. We don't know yet what her chances are. She is taking chemo and she is so brave. Her spirits are high and her attitude is wonderful.

I thank God for each day I have with her. I simply cannot imagine being on bad terms with my Mama. She is such a joy to be around. Everyone who meets Nell loves her.

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7. Share The Lilly Pond
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8. How to Submit Your Story
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Remember what I said now, I really want your stories! So get busy and when you’re all finished, here’s what I need you to do. At the end of your story, be sure to write:

++ Your first name, last name, city and state. (This is for our files only.)

++ Whether you want me to use your first name, initials or no name at all. (This is for publication. In any event, I will not publish your last name.)

++ Whether you want me to use your state or no location at all. (This is also for publication. In any event, I will not publish your city.)

++ Please say clearly: either YES, THE LILLYPOND HAS PERMISSION TO PUBLISH your story or question, or FOR LILLIAN'S EYES ONLY AND NOT FOR PUBLICATION. I treasure your confidence and respect your privacy above all.

Just send your story by email to stories@thelillypond.com

I'm waiting to hear from you!

Note from the Legal Pad: If you do grant permission to publish your story, you would also be granting me the right to make very minor edits for spelling, grammar and readability; to make minor edits to preserve your anonymity; and to use your letter in my other publications and books.

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9. Contact Me
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Your comments are welcome at lil@thelillypond.com

Thanks for reading!

With all my heart, Lillian

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